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Heyyy gais! Hoping that you gais have a great day today wherever you are. Just in case you have a bad day, relax and just believe something happen for a reason.
My random talk for today is about "its okay being a single'. At the age of 23, questions like "dah berpunya ke", "bila nak kahwin" is a common questions. Get ready with the answers gais..hehe. Selalunya kalau sedara tanya tu biasalah untuk mulakan perbualan, nak bermesra. Jangan pulak korang jawab "suami makcik tu ada 3 lagi kuota". Itu biadap...hahaha
You ; why you are still single?
Me ; why CANT I be single?
Dont be surprised, some people are much happier when they are single. Some people are happy when they can travel around the world,some people are happy when they can see the smile on their family face, and some people are happy when they know their cats are waiting for them at their home. Happy my friends are not only defined by having a partner. But it can be stressful when people keep questioning. Stop questioning. Just like you dont want to be questioned about your love life, they dont want to be questioned about their single lives too
One of the reasons why people are still or choose to be single is simply they have been taking care of themselves. Being single are often misunderstood, for playing too hard too get. The truth is, when you have reached a certain age, you simply refused to waste your time by meeting a new people and adding more drama in life.
Dont be ashamed of being single and alone. Some people spend most of the time alone and be perfectly happy. Just like me, I always prefer shopping and going to bookstores alone. Tak sampai hati biar kawan tunggu lama- lama dekat kedai buku. 5 or 10 minutes is okay but I can spend one or two hours at the bookstores. Of course there are times that we spend with family and friends but we also need some alone time.
Remember, if you cant be happy in your own company, you cant be happy in the company of others.
Just be happy, it all that matters. Jangan risau, soal jodoh semua tu Allah dah tentukan..chill je tau:)
Bye gais! c u soon.. assalamualaikum..
